Top things for a healthier, happier life

Top things for a healthier, happier life


“Posture” is an assumed position that is unsustainable the more rigid or fixed it is

“Positioning” yourself different ways when sitting, standing, doing work is optimal

Sitting and standing up “straight” is not optimal for our working system

Relaxed positioning allows for things to move

Sitting, standing and walking should be a lot less work—and use a lot less energy—than we have been making it out to be

Standing all day at work is not that much better than sitting all day.

Aim for 40 minutes of sitting, 10 minutes of standing and 3-5 minutes of walking (these numbers re variable)

When sitting or standing, shift weight lightly from side-to-side whenever you can

We are a system made of pumps and we need to move side-to-side for these pumps to work optimally

After performing the “Breathwork” activities below, you should be better able to sit and stand without feeling the need to “sit up straight”


We should, at various times during the day, be aware and consciously breath.  The focus should be on inhalation through our nose and an easy exhalation as if you are sighing. 

Taking a step further, with each exhalation in a cycle of 8-10 conscious breaths, try to exhale a little more each time.  Inhale slower than you want a comfortable amount without your chest going up and forward and feeling the air go into the back and sides of your ribcage.

Taking it two steps further, inhale with focus on expanding your ribcage out and back, then exhaling and pausing for anywhere from 3-15 seconds, gradually increasing the pause each cycle.

Taking it to each side, feel the air go into the right front lower ribs and left midback when inhaling and try to exhale a little more out of the left front lower ribs.

Periodically during the day while sitting, sit with your back to a chair (without “lumbar support”) and inhale into the chair, especially on the left


Strive to get 7-8 hours every night on as a consistent schedule as possible

Use a contour pillow (something that provides a little support for the neck)

Stay off your stomach

When sleeping on sides, use a pillow between the knees

When sleeping on back, use a pillow under knees

Make the room as dark as you feel safe doing

Shut down electronics an hour before going to bed

Read instead of watching television in bed

Take 6-10 slow, full breaths before going to sleep (see “Breathwork”)


Eat more vegetables than you'd think (or like to maybe?)

Chew food a few more times than usual—research suggests about 30 times depending on the type of food.

This aids in portion control, enjoyment of food, digestion and even elevates alertness resulting in improvements in cognitive function

Reduce exposure to packaged and processed foods

There’s almost always another, better option

Try to schedule regular family meals with as many family members as possible  Make it a priority!


Wear it!


Get one and use it!  It does more than you think….


Whenever you can

Close to your body


React less to the little things that don't matter

Any movement during the day is good

Seek ways to make movement happen

Inconveniences often provide opportunity

Many times they are much less of an inconvenience than your brain makes them out to be


Chemical-ly smells (cleaners, gas fumes)

Excessive loud noises repeatedly

Frightening images, especially those of real events (violence, beatings)


Being aware of the present or the "now".  Appreciate the moment, regardless of how tedious

Daily time to shut off "noise"

BSTS—Better Safe Than Sorry…. words to live by.  Listen to that inner voice telling you to do or not do something

Interacting with others—especially loved ones!

Perform even menial tasks which you do regularly a different way

Put pants on leading with a different leg

Use your nondominant hand/arm for some things

Get up from sitting using a different leg than you might usually

Sit or stand with weight more to the left when you think of it

Rephrase your negative or stress-producing thoughts and words


“I’m tired” becomes “I’m looking forward to catching up on sleep”

“I’m really busy” should be “I’ve got lots of great things going on”

“I’m stressed because of….” should prioritize how many of those things truly matter

“Because [such and such] is a problem” should be “I’m going to work on…”

Your brain is constantly playing tricks on you, so you should try to play tricks on it


Ask yourself if you really laughed at the end of each day


Live life as exercise

Efficiency is not always the best choice

Make things a little more work than usual

Park farther away, whenever you can

No drive-throughs

Take the stairs

Make daily activities deliberate

Walk, outside, whenever able

Take more trips to and from the car, up and down stairs and such with things


Get on and off the ground win various ways throughout the day

This would include half kneeling to put on socks and shoes and tying them

Playing with your children on the floor

Play with your animals on the floor

Perform at least some exercise on the floor

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